A sincere smile works wonders
As the sun was going down and I was looking for a few last shots before returning to my hotel room, I walked to Le Vieux Port knowing that there would still be a throng of people about. Some on their way somewhere while others sat, legs dangling over the water, enjoying exactly where they were. There were a lot of people along the edge of the port, enjoying both the declining sun and temperature.
It’s both beautiful and relaxing so there is no wonder why people are always there (at least in the warm months).
I walked around and photographed many people from many angles. Mostly trying not to be noticed. As I was framing this family in my viewfinder, the mom looked over at me.
What to do? I did what I always do, I smiled. As often happens, she smiled back. It’s a human thing. People (not all) usually return a smile when smiled at. At least they do when it’s sincere.
I thought for a moment to walk away but instead asked her if she would mind if I photographed her and her family in that beautiful light. Most of the exchange was non verbal since my French was as limited as her English. I’m very happy I did. She seemed pleased as well.
The moral of the story would seem to be that smiles open doors that otherwise may be closed. Smiling more never hurt anyone. It makes you feel good at the least and makes others feel good too. Point 2 (or 1a) is that it doesn’t hurt to talk to strangers.
Ask and ye shall receive goes the old saying.
What you receive may be a “No” but it equally could be a “Yes”. Your “Yes” count definitely goes up with a smile.
Most of my street photography tends to be people going about their lives unaware of me. I do love to take portraits of all kinds though. Street portraits are rewarding. They can lead to both wonderful images and meeting people.